Honestly it is absolutely wonderful! Right now in this stage of parenting we give the discipline and then give hugs and cuddles afterward. We are still the hero and the people they want to be around more than anything and this is something I do not take lightly. I know there will be a day coming when friends will be cooler and they will want to be anywhere but near us and when we discipline, it is not going to be followed up with cuddles. So this mama is soaking up every minute of this life.
We get to go to work together. Our kiddos know what it means to clock in and out. They see us meet strangers every single day and how to have conversations with them. They know how to introduce themselves and ask a person’s name and how they are.
We are not sending them to school and practices and here and there and having to correct whatever they’ve seen or heard from the world. Right now we get to be the filter of what goes in. And again it will not be like this forever so this is a season and opportunity I’m not taking lightly. We see and hear everything that’s going on around them. So when we do see the kid at the playground being a terrible big brother we are able to chat about us and our actions and why we do what we do. We get to talk about being a Schneider and what that means and looks like.
Our kids are still kids so of course we have to parent. Right now there are a few things we say all the time, such as, “just because someone else makes a bad choice does not mean we have to” and to the little one it’s more about using your words and not just fussing and hitting. We go through this mantra….do dogs talk…. no….. do trees talk…. no….. can you talk….yes….God made so many things but you are the only one that can talk….so use your words.
We have not escaped being parents but we have escaped a lot of the other stressors that make parenting and balancing all the things so tough. This season of being together all the time has been a true blessing and one I am so so so thankful we have gotten to experience.
My sweet friend Emily,
You and your husband are wise beyond your years. I am so envious of the life you are living with your babies, and wish I had the idea and courage to have done the same thing. I commend you, and thank you for raising two little boys into two amazing men. This is also addressed to you husband. Enjoy and soak up every minute. May the Lord continue to bless you and keep you safe, healthy, and well
Anne, thank you so much for the kind words and encouragement! We truly treasure it!
I am so very happy for you and your family. What a real life lesson you are giving your family in real time. God has given you a wonderful gift and you a using it to the fullest. I can’t wait to read the next insight!!! Good look and stay safe❣️
Couldn’t agree more, so thankful God has given us this time!
You two are amazing parents and they are lucky boys! You are so right to soak in every moment …it goes so quick. I love following your blog! Hope to see you guys some day soon!
Thank you soooo much Linda!
You are living the best life! Somewhat like a year round harvest.. spreading knowledge, cheer and goodwill every day.. oh the people you will meet and make a difference.. so happy to see you, Chase and meet your sweet family. Thank you Emily for sharing your home with us for a great visit!!
Nancy thank you so much for the kinds words! We loved seeing you guys, hope you’ve had safe travels as well!